Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Back Cause I'm Pissed

This past weekend I was back home and excited to head to my favorite restaurants, see friends and family, and at the very least attempt to take a break from the stress of grad school (there simply isn't enough alcohol in the world for this last bit). I was also excited to return to my old stomping ground for mass. I will not mention the church or the priest by name... cause I'm pissed and this is going to be somewhat critical (the "somewhat" made me lol too).

This past weekend we had readings from Wisdom, Philemon, and Luke. All good readings, yet sadly the priest I listened to only talked about the reading from Luke. Priests do this often, focusing on one of the three readings that is particularly moving for them, or highlights a particular topic that the local community or society at large needs to spend more time focusing on. With this in mind I must at this moment own my own bias and say that while Fr. Blank (as if Blank is the man's actual last name haha) focused only on the Gospel I may very well have only focused on the second reading, the letter from St. Paul that itself is only one chapter, 23 versus.

In the second reading we hear a portion of Paul's letter to Philemon, a slave holder to whom Paul has returned a run away slave.


Philemon is the master of a slave that has run away. Paul obeying the current societal norms sends the slave back and writes a letter, a letter that I would like to call a great failure at Catholic Guilt. Again, a slave ran away from their master. Paul sent them back. The reading began

"I, Paul, an old man, 
and now also a prisoner for Christ Jesus,
urge you on behalf of my child Onesimus,
whose father I have become in my imprisonment;
I am sending him, that is, my own heart, back to you." 

How is that not the focus of every homily whenever any verse from Philemon is read at mass? He was a slave, and Paul sent him back. Am I the only one thinking (Screaming often times out loud) that this is a massive problem?

At what point do we stop and say, 'this is WRONG!'? At what point do we look at the slave master and say, 'what you are doing is WRONG!'? At what point to we allow ourselves to step up and speak out?

The same day that we saw these readings in the missal and heard them read aloud at mass we also witnessed the canonization of Mother Teresa, now officially St. Teresa. This woman, this St. is a prime example of standing up to the societal and cultural norms and enacting real change for the least of those around you. She lived her life speaking out for those who were voiceless. Those enslaved by poverty felt her love and experienced her mercy. 

In Luke's Gospel we hear the often-troubling lines,

“If anyone comes to me without hating his father and mother,
wife and children, brothers and sisters,
and even his own life,
he cannot be my disciple.
Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after me
cannot be my disciple." 

In this we should not hear the words of Jesus telling us to hate our families. We should not leave mass thinking, 'Oh God why must I hate in order to follow you?' Rather we should leave mass realizing that we should not let anything get in our way of following Christ. We should not allow our family, a religious order, our friends, or the societal/social norms get in our way. We should pick up our crosses, as St. Teresa did, as Paul could have and boldly follow in the footsteps of Christ never being too timid to flip a couple of tables or look in the face of an oppressor and say what you are doing is wrong! 


He was a slave. Paul sent him back. This is wrong. This is a problem. How can we, moving forward, free ourselves and our society from the present day slavery that often surrounds us? 




*Written while listening to the score from Schindler's list 

Monday, March 21, 2016

"My God, my God, why have You abandoned me?"

How often have we cried out asking God this question, "My God, my God, why have You abandoned me?" from the lips of crucified Christ according to Matthews Gospel we hear Jesus quoting Psalm 22. But let us reflect a moment how often have we asked this of God? Is it ok that we are asking this of God? What does this say about our relationship with God? All good questions, otherwise I wouldn't waste yours/my time in asking them (I am unable to ask a question without first attempting to answer it myself). However I feel that there may be a more important follow up question to ask, "How many times has God asked my children my children why have you abandoned me?" Are there moments in life when we have completely abandoned God?

Yesterday marked the start of Holy Week. With a name like Holy Week it would seem that it goes without saying that it is an important week. However I would like to reemphasis the importance of this week, far too often it is easy to jump right to Easter, however if we do that we miss out on the beauty of Holy Thursday and Good Friday, we also miss out on an opportunity to journey with Christ to the Cross.

Thursday masses around the world the presiding priest will wash feet (Pope Francis has officially stated that women are to be included in this practice, and will himself be washing the feet of refugees). Several parishes will do this differently than others. Some will have 12 men (and only men) having their feet washed, others will have 12 adults (and only adults, men and women), and still others will have 12 parishioners (men, women, adults and children/young adults), or in the a rare experience the parish will have communal foot washing where anyone is welcome to come and have their feet washed, and even wash the feet of others. If you are given the opportunity to participate please do (it is worth it!). Even if you are unable to participate actively in this practice, attend the service and I invite you to think of whose feet you would be willing to wash.

On Friday there are a couple of differing options for services as well. Good Friday is the one day of the year where a mass is not celebrated. By this I mean that on Good Friday the Eucharist used at any service was consecrated on Thursday night. While certain services will offer an opportunity to partake in the Eucharist do not be surprised if your Parish does a passion service or stations of the cross instead. Most places will also have an opportunity for veneration of the cross. Again I strongly encourage you to participate in this (it is worth it!). With most people having to work it is understandable if you cannot make it to your typical service or that life gets in the way and you simply cant make it anywhere. If this is the case I invite you to listen to the following reflecting in your own way on the beauty of the cross. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SsBiaBTFADI

Saturday is your opportunity to partake in the Easter Vigil, yes this means you went to mass three days in a row, and yes the vigil is typically 2.5-3 hours (it is worth it!). At this mass the liturgy of the word takes us through the entirety of salvation history, it is also at this mass that we welcome the newly baptized and confirmed into the church (do you know how many people in your parish are joining the Catholic community you call home? The parish I go to here in Ohio has 17 baptisms and 27 confirmations).

I understand that this sounds like a lot of mass, a lot of church, a waste of time and maybe it is. However when I am asked what it is every year that keeps me where I am when it comes be being Catholic or not no matter how much I disagree with some of my fellow Catholics or some Church teachings I find the beauty and truth of my faith again this week.


If you have never participated in the Triduum (Holy Thursday Good Friday and Easter Vigil) let this year be the first time you do so. If you have never participated because you don't know how or want to do so alone then please join me. I can walk through it all with you! I will be at the Cathedral Holy Thursday 7:00 PM, Good Friday 8:00PM and EasterVigil 8:30PM. Don't let another year go by where you only celebrate in the resurrected Christ. Let this be the first year that you journey towards the resurrection with him and with all those around you. Let the beauty of the faith fill your Holy Week, and fill your life.

Peace and Blessings Always
~M